Boundaries feel confusing?
It’s intentional.
"Boundaries are difficult to embody because our society, historically, not only models dysfunctional boundaries, but actually discourages healthy boundaries."
-Judy Hu, The Boundary Revolution
Boundaries feel confusing?
It’s intentional.
"Boundaries are difficult to embody because our society, historically, not only models dysfunctional boundaries, but actually discourages healthy boundaries."
-Judy Hu, The Boundary Revolution
You've been groomed to gaslight your Self.
You've been groomed to gaslight your Self.
Hi, I'm Judy Hu.
I help you stop pathologizing yourself and instead understand, regulate, and change relational patterns rooted in trauma — without shame.
As a result, more of your energy is spent on living in alignment rather than combatting constant self criticism.
Want to know where you learned your boundaries?
Imagine saying "No" to your caregiver in your young childhood.
How would they respond? How did you learn to behave in response to them?
There! That informs your boundaries in adulthood! Simple, right?
No, it's not; and yes, it is at the same time.
It's hard to unlearn, not because you lack discipline but because you are living in a society that celebrates really bad boundaries. You have generations of programming to undo.
It may feel impossible to unlearn these behaviors you've known your entire life, but I have developed a proven way to reprogram your nervous system.
Step by step, I coach you to embody your boundaries, not just set them. As a result, you will feel connected, authentic, and calm with and IN your Self. Regardless of the way people treat you, the situation, or the outcome you can - and will - stay grounded in your truth.
As many of my clients have stated, "Healed boundaries has changed my life."
Hey, I'm Judy Hu!
I help you stop pathologizing yourself and instead understand, regulate, and change relational patterns rooted in trauma — without shame.
As a result, more of your energy is spent on living in alignment rather than combatting constant self criticism.
Want to know where you learned your boundaries?
Imagine saying "No" to your caregiver in your young childhood.
How would they respond? How did you learn to behave in response to them?
There! That informs your boundaries in adulthood! Simple, right?
No, it's not; and yes, it is at the same time.
It's hard to unlearn, not because you lack discipline but because you are living in a society that celebrates really bad boundaries. You have generations of programming to undo.
It may feel impossible to unlearn these behaviors you've known your entire life, but I have developed a proven way to reprogram your nervous system.
Step by step, I coach you to embody your boundaries, not just set them. As a result, you will feel connected, authentic, and calm with and IN your Self. Regardless of the way people treat you, the situation, or the outcome you can - and will - stay grounded in your truth.
As many of my clients have stated, "Healed boundaries has changed my life."
JUDY HU, LMHC -
Boundary Coach for . . .
ADULTS (25+)
Ready to manifest liberated and joyful lives aligned to ones' purpose.
COUPLES
Ready to consciously partner inter-dependently, equitably, and joyfully.
GROUPS
Rewire our nervous systems in order to foster authentic & healthy connections within a brave community
ORGANIZATIONS
Build teams who elevate and support one another - improving comraderycollaboration and reducing burnout
JUDY HU, LMHC
Boundary Coach for...
ADULTS (25+)
Manifest your most liberated and joyful life aligned to your values and purpose
COUPLES
Consciously partner inter-dependently, equitably, and joyfully
GROUPS
Rewire our nervous systems to foster authentic & healthy connections within a brave community
ORGANIZATIONS
Build teams who elevate and support one another - improving collaboration and reducing burnout
Boundary Coaching™ has three stages...
1. Boundary Assessment:
You and I become detectives and piece together your psychological and emotional boundaries based on your childhood, your family of origin history contextualized in world history, and how it lines up with societal expectations.
2. Boundary Healing:
Together, we actively replace old harmful belief systems with new ones that align to your highest good. We also consider differing perspectives in order to build appropriate empathy, contextualize trauma, and hold compassionate accountability for self and others.
3. Boundary Integration:
Here, you integrate your sense of Self with healthy boundaries. The natural result is a joyfully embodied way of living, regardless of your environment or situation. When you center your life as AS important as anyone else's - no more and no less - you learn true interdependence, equality, and peace.
Boundary Coaching™ has three stages...
1. Boundary Assessment:
You and I become detectives and piece together your psychological and emotional boundaries based on your childhood, your family of origin history (3 generations out) - contextualized in world history, and how it lines up with societal expectations.
2. Boundary Healing:
Together, we actively replace old harmful belief systems with new ones that align to your highest good. We also consider differing perspectives in order to build appropriate empathy, contextualize trauma, and hold compassionate accountability for Self and others.
3. Boundary Integration:
Here, you integrate your sense of Self with healthy boundaries. The natural result is a joyfully embodied way of living, regardless of your environment or situation. When you center your life as AS important as anyone else's - no more and no less - you learn true interdependence, equality, and peace.
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2557 Massachusetts Ave, Cambridge MA 02140
(781) 285-8368
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